Use words that show love
Words can have a powerful impact on family members, even when you are only teasing. If you tell your spouse or children that they have—or don’t have—certain qualities, you help shape their self-image. A child who is labeled “intelligent” by parents has a better chance to do well in school. A child who is labeled a “slow learner” may struggle.Here are some ideas for using words that show love: - Use positive words. Help family members build confidence by avoiding negative labels. Your words should show love and acceptance.
- Let your children be themselves. Avoid labels that pressure children to perform as you want them to.
- Express confidence in your children’s abilities. Always encourage them to do the best they can.
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