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Tanya Kay O.: Mormon.

Hi, I'm Tanya Kay O.

I'm so thankful to be part of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints!

About Me

Hi! I grew up in a wonderful family with 12 children. My parents taught me to work hard, help others, love and serve God, be smart and get a good education and to love and take care of each other in our family. I am a registered nurse by profession and earned my master's degree in nursing education in 2005 - but one of the greatest blessings in my life has been to make the decision to stay home as a full-time wife and mother and to raise my family.

My husband and I now have 5 (with one more on the way) of our own beautiful children. We are working hard to teach our children the same things our parents taught us- only it seems a lot harder now that we're the parents! We are learning so much every day and life is wonderful! I love my family! I love spending time with them. They are the most important part of who I am and my life.


Why I am a Mormon

There are so many reasons! Here are Five:

1. The teachings of the Church of Jesus Christ makes my life happy! Both myself and my husband were blessed to be born into families that were Mormon. I have always been grateful that from the time I was little I have been taught the teachings and stories of Jesus Christ and taught that if I would keep His commandments my life would be better for it.

2. I have prayed about the teachings of the Church and I have received answers for myself that all that the Church teaches is true. Many times I have felt a peaceful feeling that whispered to my heart that what I was reading in the scriptures, or hearing from the prophet, or taught at church was true.

3. I have tried to live the gospel my whole life and I have tested out the teachings and know for myself that they are true and lead to happiness now and I believe they will lead to happiness in the next life too. Every time I have followed the Lord's commandments -- to read my scriptures, to love my family, to keep myself clean and virtuous and wait until I was married to have intimate relations with my husband, to be modest, to not drink coffee or alcohol, to be honest and not steal, to be kind to others, to go to church, --I have felt so blessed and peaceful and happy. Every time I have chosen to do something I know was wrong -- the feelings have be sorrow, regret, sadness and guilt. We can know by both faith and by living the gospel that it is true.

4. In the gospel, I know I have hope through the atonement of Jesus Christ to be forgiven of the mistakes I make and to feel forgiven and clean. The Church is where you can find the priesthood authority given from God to be baptized for remission of sins, and to receive all the blessings of our Father in Heaven. The Savior can help us overcome our weaknesses and become better people.

5. Sacred Ordinances available in Holy Temples make it possible for our family to be together for eternity. This is very important to me. Not only does it bring a greater depth of joy in our marriage, but our first daughter was stillborn at full-term. This was a defining moment in my life with my testimony. I learned for myself how important and comforting the knowledge of the resurrection of all men is because of Jesus Christ and also that our family could be eternally connected.

Personal Stories

How can your talents and gifts bless others?

Everyone has something to share and everyone has something to learn! When I see others shine in sharing their talents it inspires me to want to share too or to improve myself. Also, when we give of ourselves - it helps make things better and joy to both those sharing and those receiving.

For example, when you meet someone who has a talent of smiling - it brightens both your day and their day to see their smile. But if they kept that smile to themselves and didn't share it can even lead to sadness for both others as well as themselves.

Or, if you had the talent of teaching and knowing how to listen and engage your class - it blesses everyone when you share that. We can all grow together and find joy in sharing our talents!

How I live my faith

Living the gospel is what make our family happy! It affects every part of our lives.

Each morning and night we kneel as a family for prayer and thank the Lord for blessing us and ask for His help. We teach our children to pray individually both morning and night and whenever they feel worried or scared or need to make a decision or are thankful for a blessing. We read our scriptures as a family, usually over breakfast before heading off to work and school and our day. We know the Lord hears our prayers because He helps us all through the day and comforts our hearts. These simple things bless our lives so much.

Once a week, usually on Monday nights, we also have a Family Night. We sing and pray and teach each other the gospel and also do something fun together - like a game or playing in the back yard or at the park or even just having ice cream together at home.

We attend church every Sunday and try to attend the temple every week. At church I have been involved in many different things - from leading music or playing the piano; teaching classes for all ages including nursery, children, youth and adults; working in the leadership of the church organization for children and young women ages 12-18; and just being a general support in going to church activities and supporting others in their work for the church. We have been so blessed by the efforts others have given in volunteering their talents at church and it feels good to be a part and to share and to be needed too.

When we get paid, we pay 10% of our paycheck to the Lord. This money goes to build churches and temples and to share the gospel. We also fast (or don't eat 2 meals) on the first Sunday each month and take the money we would have spent on the meals and give the money to the Bishop (or leader of our congregation) to use to bless those in our own neighborhood who are struggling and need financial help. We do not have extra money (as it is always a constant project to budget and spend wisely to be able to live and raise several children with only one parent working) but the Lord always has given more back to us and taken good care of us and we know it is because we have done this.

In the summer, our family helps at a church orchard close to our home. We help to pick the fruit that the church uses both locally as well as processes to send to others who need it throughout the world. We also try to help out others around us - help with moving people, yard projects, caring for children, sharing food and meals, giving rides and visiting others.

We just try to be good people, and try to do what the Savior did. To love others, to be kind to everyone and to help when and where we are needed. To work hard and be as honest as we can. To say we're sorry when we goof up and try to make things right. To strive to recognize the Lord's hand in our lives and His help and to thank Him for it.

Living the gospel is a big part of who I am and what I spend my time doing!