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Hi, I'm Kathryn
I'm a Mormon. My beliefs define who I am and what I want to become.
About Me
Hi! I'm Kathryn. I'm a lifelong member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I was born and raised in Salt Lake City in 1948. I have been married for 40 years (to the same kind, incredibly patient man). Together we have two grown children -- a son and a daughter. I am a retired computer programmer/systems designer who loves to travel, garden, write, attend the theatre, talk about my faith and spend time with my two dogs and one cat.
Why I am a Mormon
I am a Mormon for a number of reasons, the first of which being that I was born to Mormon parents, who taught me what they believed to be true and encouraged me to be baptized and confirmed at the age of eight. For a number of years, that is pretty much the only reason why I was a Mormon.
I am almost 62 years old now. A lot has happened in the forty-four years since I was baptized. I am a Mormon today, not because I was baptized and confirmed a member of the Church at the age of eight, but because I am convinced that the teachings of the Church are true and that the authority Jesus Christ gave to His Apostles anciently is again on the earth. Everything I have read on the subject of the early Church has convinced me that a universal apostasy did, in fact, take place soon after the deaths of the Apostles. Throughout the New Testament, these twelve chosen men warned that this was to happen. Paul seemed particularly concerned about the infant Church and frequently voiced his concerns to the early Christians. Among his statements to Christ's followers, are these:
Acts 20:29 For I know this, that after my departing shall grievous wolves enter in among you, not sparing the flock.
2 Thessalonians 2:3 Let no man deceive you by any means: for that day shall not come, except there come a falling away first, and that man of sin be revealed, the son of perdition…
Galatians 1:6 I marvel that ye are so soon removed from him that called you into the grace of Christ unto another gospel…
2 Timothy 4:3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears…
Paul made it absolutely clear that the flock would not only be attacked, it would not be spared, that Christ would not return to the earth until this universal "falling away" or "apostasy" had taken place, that these things were already beginning to take place as he spoke, and that the doctrines taught by the Savior would, in time, cease to endure.
When I came to realize that the Church Jesus Christ had established had ceased to exist in its original form, I began to understand why it was so essential that He be a part of the re-establishment of that Church.
While the Apostles predicted that a universal Apostasy would take place following their deaths, they also spoke of hope in a Restoration of that which was lost. As recorded in Acts 3:19-21, Peter prophesied of this restitution or “apokatastasis” also translated as reconstitution, restoration or re-establishment "when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord And he shall send Jesus Christ, which before was preached unto you: Whom the heaven must receive until the times of restitution of all things, which God hath spoken by the mouth of all his holy prophets since the world began.”
He did not specifically state when it would take place. However, he did say that Christ will not return until “the restitution of all things” had occurred. In other words, the second coming will take place after “all things” have been restored. The two events will not take place simultaneously. The Greek word for “until”, as used in this instance, is “achri.” It denotes completion of an act or event as in the statement, “You can’t go to the movies until you’ve cleaned your room.” Other examples of this usage are found in Luke 1:20, Romans 8:22 and Revelation 17:17.
In Revelation 14:6, John too spoke of the Restoration, when he described seeing "another angel fly in the midst of heaven, having the everlasting gospel to preach unto them that dwell on the earth, and to every nation, and kindred, and tongue, and people…"
Upon becoming convinced that a Restoration of the original Church had been foretold, I stopped to consider just how many churches on the earth today claim to be that Church. Of course, I knew that mine did. But were the doctrines I'd always been taught really taught anciently? Study and prayer convinced me that they were, and I grew to love learning what the Christians of Jesus' day really believed. Amazingly, so much of what I read confirmed in my mind that they believed very much what I had been taught to believe! The Church of Jesus Christ really does exist on the earth today, and if He were to attend one of our worship services, He would find nothing amiss about what we believe or teach.
I am a Mormon because I desperately need what the Church of Jesus Christ has to offer me -- direction and purpose in my everyday life, consolation and comfort in times of trial and sorrow, and hope for something amazingly wonderful after I die. I've often thought that if the Church isn't true, it should be! The doctrines of the Church help me understand that God didn't place me here on earth for His amusement, nor did He create me out of a need for my eternal praise and adoration. He created me for an entirely unselfish reason -- that I might have joy! He created me because He wanted me to be able to have all the blessings He could possibly bestow on me. He is not offended by my desire to be like Him. He is honored to know that I love Him so much that I want to be everything He has given me the potential to be. He doesn't look at me as a vile, depraved creature but as His daughter, as a daughter who occasionally makes mistakes, but whom He loves dearly in spite of my failures. He is the perfect parent, and when I stop to think about how much my earthly parents loved me and what they would have done for me, I realize that His love for me must exceed anything I can imagine.
I love knowing that His Plan is not limited to those who were fortunate enough to hear the restored gospel during their lifetimes, but allows for every man, woman and child who has ever lived to hear the good news before it is too late. I cherish my understanding of what is happening today in the Spirit World and am so grateful that He has provided a way for all of us to return to His presence someday. Billions have lived and died, having never heard of Jesus Christ. How, never having heard of Him, could they possibly be accepted to believe in Him or trust Him to save them? How wonderful that God is going to give them a chance to not only hear His gospel, but to actually make a decision themselves to accept it! What relief they must feel when they realize that they can repent of their sins and be forgiven of them!
I am a Mormon because I believe we as Latter-day Saints are taught to practice what we preach. I spend a great deal of time online, on religious discussion forums and am always so gratified to see the way in which the LDS members of the forums conduct themselves. Our love for God is real and that means it must extend to our brothers and sisters who are not members of our Church. There is not a day that goes by that we cannot show them what we stand for. Sometimes it involves nothing more than patiently explaining what we believe to a hostile listener. At other times, it involves service to someone less fortunate, or a donation to the Church's Humanitarian Fund. But it's true Christianity in action. It is not just a once a week Church, but a way of life, a wonderful, fulfilling, satisfying way of life.
I guess, in summary, I am a Mormon because...
1. I was born into a Mormon household where I was taught by example by good parents who loved me and wanted only the best for me.
2. I am convinced that both an Apostasy and a Restoration are realities.
3. I find the doctrines the Church teaches to answer my questions. I find no gaping holes in them or mysteries that "we're not supposed to understand" in its teachings.
4. I am lifted up rather than brought down by its message.
5. I can, and am expected to, put its teachings into practice every day of my life.
Personal Stories
Why/How do you share the gospel with your friends?
I don't share the gospel with my friends as often as I share it with people I don't even really know, but who have become my friends as a result of our conversations. For about ten years, I have participated in a number of online forums where religion is the topic of conversation. I have spoken to literally hundreds of people about my beliefs and have loved answering their questions about the restored gospel.
As part of my online activity, I was privileged to help one inactive sister again become an active member of the church. At the time we first "met" online, her husband was not a member. In fact, he was even somewhat antagonistic towards the Church. Through our conversations, she developed the courage to do what she'd wanted to do for several years, which was to return to full activity in her ward. Within a couple of years, her husband developed an interest in the Church and was eventually baptized. Last year, my husband and I were able to make a trip of roughly 1000 miles to be present when their marriage was sealed for time and all eternity in one of the Church's temples.
Another wonderful experience I had online was with a women who, when I first met her, described herself as agnostic. She didn't even feel sure that there was a God. She eventually asked me if I could arrange to have the missionaries visit her, which I did. She is now a member of the Church, and even plans to visit Salt Lake City next year -- all the way from England.
It has always been difficult for me to approach people in person and begin conversations about the Church. For some reason, though, it is very easy for me to do online. I truly believe that I have been given a talent, which is to help people understand LDS doctrine, history and culture. In the process, I have learned more about our beliefs than I could even have imagined possible. Most of the time, I feel entirely comfortable in answering the questions posed to me. Sometimes, though, I don't have a ready answer and need to do a little research before responding. In the process, I learn, too.
To me, it's important that people learn the truth about us. We are a misunderstood people. Our doctrines are often distorted and ridiculed and our history misrepresented. If I can help dispel some of the ugly rumors about my Church that I hear on an almost daily basis on the internet, I want to do so. My intent is not to convert people to Mormonism. That's the Holy Ghost's job, not mine. I just want to plant a few seeds, make sure they get the nourishment they need, and pull a few weeds in the process.
Please explain the part prayer plays in your life?
I learned at a very young age that my Father in Heaven loves me, knows me personally, listens when I talk to Him, and answers me. I remember so clearly the first time I really came to know this, even though I was probably only about five years old at the time.
I was at home alone with my mother on one of those days when there was "nothing to do." Picking up what we called simply "the bell," I began to try to entertain myself. The bell was one of those little portable timers that you could set for anywhere up to an hour by turning the dial on the front to a number between 1 and 60. As the minutes passed, you could hear the tick, tick, tick as the little arrow on the dial moved slowly counterclockwise back towards the top of the timer. When it reached the number zero, a crystal clear "ding!" would sound. Mother used it every day when when she was cooking.
The bell was a lot of fun to play with particularly for a child who hadn't ever even seen a TV, much less played a video game!. Holding the bell in one hand, I would turn the dial just past the 5-minute marker with the other hand, and then immediately back to the 0-minutes marker at the top. "Ding!" I loved the sound it made. Over and over again I repeated the action: Wind to the right, wind to the left. Ding! Wind to the right, wind to the left. Ding!
"Kathryn, the bell is not a toy and it's not made to be played with like that. You need to stop before you break it," my mother warned.
"I'm not going to break it," I answered knowingly. "Watch!" Wind to the right, wind to the left. Ding! Wind to the right, wind to the left. Ding! Every time I heard the ding, it confirmed in my mind that I knew that bell far better than my mother did. After a half a dozen or so "dings," I suddenly heard instead a dull click. The bell had stopped working. I was surprised and a little taken back. My mother really had known what she was talking about!
My mother took the bell from me and tried it a few times herself. She didn't get a "ding!" either, though, just a dull click. The bell was broken and it was my fault.
"See?" she said. "What did I tell you? You didn't listen to me and now it's broken. We're going to have to buy a new one."
I felt terrible that I'd broken the bell, but only for an instant. Suddenly, my little eyes lit up. "I know!" I said. "We can pray about it. We can ask Heavenly Father to fix it!" I could see the doubt in my mother's eyes. She didn't know what to do. She'd taught me to pray whenever I needed my Heavenly Father's help, but surely He wasn't going to step in and fix a mechanical device that had clearly stopped working. And when He didn't, I'd be crushed. She didn't want that.
"Don't worry about it," she said, finally. "I don't think praying will help this time." Well, in spite of the fact that she'd been right in warning me that the bell would break if I kept playing with it, I knew she was wrong about telling me not to pray about it.
I was insistent. Stubbornly I marched off into my bedroom, where I knelt down at the side of my bed. I began my prayer. I told my Heavenly Father that I was sorry I'd disobeyed my mother and had broken the bell, but now I needed His help. I needed Him to fix it. I closed my prayer and hurried back to the other room.
"Okay," I announced with all the confidence in the world. "Try it now." Hesitantly, my mother turned the dial to the right and then back to the left. Suddenly, to her surprise, we both heard a loud, clear, beautiful "ding!"
I learned something that day that I have never forgotten. God hears and answers our prayers. I have often thought, in greater depth than I did that day so long ago, about what that experience really taught me. God fixed the bell. I am 100% convinced of that. At the same time, when my stapler broke a couple of weeks ago, it didn't even occur to me to ask God to fix it. I guess that's because I don't think He would have done so. Does that mean my faith is weaker now than it was when I was five years old? Does it mean that God loves me less now that I am an adult than when I was a child? It doesn't mean either of those things. I have come to realize that while God will oftentimes give me what I want, He will ALWAYS give me what I need. As a five-year-old, I needed to know that He was listening to me when I prayed and would not ignore my request for help. I know that now. I am convinced that God knew how critical it was that He fix that bell, and that this one experience would teach me a lesson that I'd never forget.
When I pray now, and ask God for something, I always try to remember to acknowledge that He knows what is best for me, and I ask that He will give me the courage to accept whatever His answer may be. I know that if I am asking for something He knows I need, He'll give it to me. In other words, I try to remember what Jesus Christ said in His prayer to His Father in the Garden of Gethsemane -- "not my will but thine be done."
LDS songwriter, Michael McLean, wrote a beautiful song about this. Here are the words to that song...
"A mansion on a hill, a love like in the movies,
Perfect little dreams where no one has a problem.
Instead of all those things I thought I really wanted,
I’ve been given what I need.
Even when I didn’t understand,
When I thought you had no heart,
Thank you for rejecting my demands
And always giving me the better part.
All I ever wanted, all I ever I dreamed of,
Everything I hoped and all the things I prayed for
Couldn’t hold a candle to what I’ve been given.
I’ve been given what I need."
I try to see prayer as a means by which I can grow closer to my Heavenly Father. Even though He knows my every need and does not need any reminders from me as to what they are, I believe He is pleased when I acknowledge that He is the source of every good thing I have in this life. When I tell Him that I have faith in Him, what I am really doing is telling Him that I trust Him to do what's best for me. I believe that in this way, I am showing Him the honor and respect He so deserves.
How I live my faith
I try to live my faith by being a good example of what I believe a Latter-day Saint should be. To me, this means serving my fellow human beings in whatever ways I can. Oftentimes, I have rendered service as a part of my Church "callings." More often, though, I have found my own ways to serve in my community. Some of the most memorable ways in which I have been able to serve are these:
Almost twenty years ago, just prior to the colapse of the former Soviet Union, I became aware that a fairly large number of refugees were coming to the United States and that a sizable number of them were being resettled in Salt Lake City. My husband and I decided to volunteer as sponsors for one family, a man and his wife and their young son. These three wonderful people had literally fled Azerbaijan for their lives. As believers in Eastern Orthodox Christianity, they were persecuted mercilessly by their Muslim countrymen for their beliefs. Thinking about the persecution of members of my own church who had been driven from their homes in the dead of winter by their fellow Americans, my heart went out to this family. As part of our commitment to them, we furnished an apartment for them, helped them find jobs and learn to adapt to life in a free country. We became very close to this family and even though they have moved to another state, have maintained an enduring friendship with them.
A few years later, we sponsored another refugee family. This family a man, his wife and their daughter and son was from Bosnia. They were Muslims who had been forced from their homes by so-called Christians. They spoke less English than the family from Azerbaijan had, and we had less in common with them than we'd had with the first family we'd sponsored, so I realized at once that this experience was going to present us with a new set of challenges. It, too, turned out to be very rewarding. One of our goals was to help them realize that it's wrong to judge people by their their ethnicity or their religion. I believe we were instrumental in helping them come to realize that not all Christians were like the ones who'd driven them from their homes and killed their relatives. Conversely, we grew to respect them and their religious traditions and were their guests at a wonderful feast celebrating the conclusion of Ramadan.
I have had a number of other experiences serving my fellow human beings, all of which have enriched my life. I have volunteered teaching English as a second language to immigrant families as well as literacy and reading skills to American adults who had never learned to read. I also volunteered with the Red Cross when families from the New Orleans area were being temporarily relocated in my city following Huricane Katrina. All of these experiences have given me the opportunity to show others what I believe it means to be an LDS Christian.
My Church "callings" have included working with the children, the teenage girls, the women and new members and prospective converts. I love teaching adults. My favorite callings have been teaching Relief Society which is the Church's women's auxilliary and Gospel Principles lessons tailored for people who are either newly baptized, thinking about joining the Church or just need a "refresher course" in the gospel basics.
For eleven years, I served as a Building Hostess at the Church Office Building in Salt Lake City. This was my very favorite Church calling. As a Hostess, it was my privilege to welcome visitors to the building's 26th floor observation deck where they could take in magnificant views of Salt Lake City. I was able to meet visitors from around the world and to point out some of the city's most interesting and important sites. In this capacity, as a non-proselytizing part-time church service missionary, I loved being in a position where I could leave first-time visitors to Salt Lake City with information that would help them enjoy their trip to the Church's headquarters.
Recently, my husband and I served as part-time missionaries with the Church's Hispanic Initiative. We were assigned for two years to a small Spanish branch about twenty-minutes away from our home. During this time, we did not attend church at our own ward congregation but with Spanish-speaking members of the Church here in Salt Lake City. We were able to get to know so many of these wonderful Church members and help newly baptized members learn more about the gospel.
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