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Hi, I'm Ben
I'm a public school principal. I'm a local elected official. I'm 6' 10" tall...and I don't play b-ball. I'm a Mormon.
About Me
I am a married father of 6 children. I am a public school principal in the San Francisco Bay Area at an elementary school with 700 students in grades K-5. I enjoy playing and singing music in my free time. After living in Hawaii for 4 years, I picked up the ukulele, and got hooked! I love working with young people in the schools, and represent my community in the local school board where I live. I'm 6 feet 10 inches tall, that classifies me as a giant, but contrary to initial impressions, I have never played basketball on an organized team. My life tends to be busy and hectic, but I wouldn't trade it for anything. I have a wonderful wife who helps me to be a better person, and makes our home a haven from the outside world. Being a member of the LDS church is something that defines how I live my life, and influences the work that I do each day inside and outside of my home.
Why I am a Mormon
I was raised in an active Mormon family, but had to make a decision for myself to follow the teachings that I learned in my youth. I have felt the influence of the holy spirit in my life, especially when reading the scriptures and when listening to words and direction of the living prophet, apostles and other church leaders. Following the teachings of the Mormon church have brought me closer to my Savior Jesus Christ, and have helped me understand the atonement and how it applies to my life. Through this gospel I am able to access the blessings of the atonement and partake of the grace that is available through Jesus Christ, the Savior of all Mankind.
Personal Stories
Please share your feelings/testimony of Joseph Smith.
As I learn to serve my heavenly father more fully each day in my home and with my church responsibilities I have a greater testimony of and respect for the prophet Joseph Smith. I know that he saw God the Father and Jesus Christ and that he restored the fullness of the gospel to the earth,
How has the Holy Ghost helped you?
The Holy Ghost helps me every day by leading me to make decisions in my life that will bring me the most happiness. It prompts me to be a better husband and father. It helps me to make decisions that have allowed me to be a more effective instrument in the hands of my Heavenly Father. I am grateful every day for the influence of the Holy Ghost, and strive to be worthy of his companionship each day.
How can we develop greater harmony in our homes?
That can be a tough one, especially in my house where we have 5 children under the age of 10! My wife and I have found that the best way to do this is to make sure that we have a weekly family meeting that is called "Family Home Evening" where we spend time learning a lesson about our Heavenly Father and Jesus, and have fun together. We read scriptures together daily and we pray together as a family daily, as we do these things we are closer together as a family, and we are able to have harmony in our home.
What blessings have come through your faith in Jesus Christ?
I think it's easy to take for granted the things that I have been blessed with because of my faith in Jesus Christ. With my faith, I am blessed to know where I came from, why I'm here and where I'm going. It gives me perspective with my fellow man. It has taught me that I am connected to all mankind in a very real way. I have been blessed with a wife and 5 beautiful children who bring me so much joy every day. My faith directs the way that I treat them, and brings a sense of purpose and love into my home. That faith has led me to know that I can be with my family for eternity. It has made me a better person, and led me down a path of constant improvement and spiritual progression.
How I live my faith
I love sharing my belief through the service I render in my profession, In my elected position as a school board member, and as a husband and father in my home. My faith defines who I am, and I love surrounding myself with people who are passionate about life, education, children, and exploring spirituality. I enjoy serving in my local congregation in whatever capacity I am asked, and have enjoyed serving in the Primary organizaiton that teaches little children from 18 months to 11 years old, in the Young Men's organization as a Boy Scout leader, in the Elder's Quorum that is one of the Church's priesthood organizations, as a counselor to the Bishop, and currently as my congregation's choir director.
The main way I share my faith is by example. Being a principal of a public school, I don't have the opportunity to overtly share my beliefs with others, but I find ways to share my faith through living the moral principles that I have learned throughout my life as a member of the LDS church. My belief that all of us are children of God helps me as I help students and families navigate their way through school and family life. Helping our community raise productive members of society through teaching children and families the principles of forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, service, work, and wholesome recreational activities is what gives me the greatest satisfaction in life.
The most important way that I live my faith is through raising my own family in a way that helps my own children see the benefits of living the gospel of Jesus Christ each and every day. As our own children grow, they will have the opportunity to take what they have learned in our home, and make their own decision about how to live their lives. I hope that as they see the example my wife and I have set through living gospel principles (however imperfect we are) that they will see that the greatest joy in life comes through Faith in Christ, and through following His example.
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