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Hi, I'm Carly
I'm a Mormon. I grew up in Utah. I joined the Army at 17. I am a Montessori Teacher, College Graduate, and battle with infertility
About Me
I am the oldest of five children. I was always taught to be a good example for my siblings. I was on the swimming and water polo teams in high school. I was always taught that service was extremely important, and love for my country and the wonderful opportunities we have here. Because of this, when I was 17 I graduated from High School and joined the Army. I also served as a missionary for the church when I was 21. I was very in love with a young man, and doing really well in school. It was very hard for me to leave but I knew that it was right for me to go. I am happy that I was able to serve people all over upstate New York and teach them the gospel for a year and a half. I graduated from college, became an officer in the Army and I was Married for eternity in the Salt Lake Temple when I was 24. We have tried for years to have children but have been unsuccessful, we are hoping to adopt, or become foster parents. We bought a little old house in northern Utah. I currently work as a Montessori Teacher in a Head Start Preschool for adorable children who teach me every day. Most of these children come from the humblest of circumstances, yet they find joy everywhere they go. I also serve at church teaching children. I am also in school again to become an Elementary School Teacher. I figure if I cannot be a mother for now, I can at least be a teacher and guide for these amazing young people who will be the future of our country and world.
Why I am a Mormon
I am the type of person that questions everything. I think I frustrate people frequently. If I am given a rule, but not a logical explanation of why I should follow it I usually try halfheartedly and eventually break that rule. This got me into a lot of trouble in basic training. Finally one of my Drill Sergeants realized that giving me pushups was not stopping the questions so he told me "Private ... go home and become an officer if you really want to know why." So I did.
Saying that, I grew up in the church, but that is not the reason I am a member of it! The church and its teachings are clear and truthful. The more I followed them, the more I saw the benefits and blessings, but that was still not enough for me. I really needed to know for myself if it was true. I had been taught that if I studied and prayed about the church that God would let me know in my heart if it was the truth. I never really tried that hard, but, when I was 15 one of my best friends died in a car accident and it changed my life. I needed to know if my beliefs were true! I needed to know what happened after death. I needed to know if Sarah was gone forever!
For the first time in my life, I stopped asking everyone else and I started finding out for myself. I read the Book of Mormon, I studied the words of the prophets, and then I spent many hours pondering about these things. I had faith that if I did my part to seek the truth, my Father in Heaven would bless me to know if I had found it. Only after all this I knelt at my bedside and fervently prayed to know. I waited for the answer directly after the prayer for a long while. God had waited for 15 years for me to ask, and I knew that I needed to be patient as well. Finally I went to sleep. That night In the middle of the night I woke up out of a dead sleep ( I am a heavy sleeper this does not happen often), I was wide awake! I felt a warmth and peace like I had never felt and I knew that it was an answer to my prayer!
Personal Stories
What is hope and what do you hope for?
I think that when I think of hope it reminds me of when I was little at night when it would be dark I would be terrified sometimes. Especially if I had seen a scary show or something. As I developed Faith I hoped that nothing bad would happen in the dark when I couldn't see. But I knew that even if something bad did happen that it would always be OK because my Father in Heaven was in charge of everything and it will all turn out in the end the way it is supposed to.
Right now I hope for children someday! I have struggeld with Infertility and the pain and hurt it brings. But I know that my Father in Heaven is in charge and everything will be OK in the end no matter what happens!
How I live my faith
I love the church. I love the benefits and blessings it brings into my life. I was never taught to follow blindly. I was always taught to ask and to question. I was never taught to disrespect others beliefs. I attended many different religious services of different faiths. I was never discouraged from this. I love learning about what other people believe, it helps me to understand better what I believe and why.
I now attend church every Sunday at 9 am. I love going to the first meeting where we take the Sacrament and remember all that Christ has done for us and commit to follow him. In this meeting, a few different members of the congregation are asked to speak on a different subject every week. Last week we learned about serving others. The leaders and members of the church are not paid. We give of our time and service freely. I prepare lessons and teach a class every Sunday. One amazing thing about the church is that if you attend church in Africa, or in the U.S., or somewhere in India, it doesn't matter the same things are taught. The lessons may be a week or two behind or in a different language but frequently I call my mother and talk to her about what she learned about in church and I have learned the same thing, even when I have lived on the other side of the country!
The leaders in the church put in so much time, my dad was in a leadership position, and he was always being called by a member of the congregation that needed help and he would run out to go help them. He worked full time as an electrical engineer and even if he worked all day and had just gotten home and was sitting down to eat dinner, he was always on call!
Because of this you really develop a love for the people you serve, like they are your family. I always have someone I can call for help even if I am far away from home. It is like having family all over the world.
The church is amazing I am happy to serve and I am so blessed because of it!
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