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How has your knowledge of the Plan of Happiness changed/benefited your life?
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Sara Turner answered…
The moment I learned about the Plan of Happiness, I KNEW that this is why we are here on this earth!!! Any question I had on the purpose of human existence was answered in my quest to better understand this plan. Heavenly Father loves us, and wants us to be happy - and I know this is true.

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David answered…
For me, the Plan of Happiness is a great blessing of comfort. It is a great feeling to know that everything is taken care of. God planned for everything. He has created this perfect system for us to be a part of. He knows what is going on.
The part that really hits home for me is the fact that after we die, we are all able to be with our families for all eternity. I will be able to know and recognize my family and enjoy eternity with them.
My family has stood by me throughout all of my trials, successes, and in between. They continue to love and support me to this day. We have been through so much together already. I could not imagine losing that after we die. It would crush me. I honestly would have no hope and would probably sink into a life of 'gloom and doom' and live it how I wanted to.
This fact alone is a major reason of why I continue on the path I am on. It is why I strive to keep the commandments. To be able to live in heaven with God AND my family is a blessing that is worth any sacrifice to me.
This comes to the second part that I am thankful for. Christ's atonement. I am so thankful that even when I fall short, even when I mess up, I am able to overcome that and be forgiven. That is able to be erased and I can strive to change that and become a new person through Christ. I am so thankful for His willingness to go through that so that I could gain the blessings of exhaltation, no matter how much I messed up. I know that as long as I continue to try to learn from my mistakes and correct them, God will forgive me and help me along the way.
He wants us to have success. He wants us to live with Him again. Why would He not? He is our Eternal Father in Heaven. He could not make it easy for us. We have come down here to learn and grow. If everything were easy and given to us, then what would be the point?
I know that families can be eternal, I know that we can be clean of our sins, and I know that God loves us and created this plan for us our benefit.

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Matthew answered…
Throughout the struggles of my life, I have learned that Heavenly Father is very mindful of us, and there is no moment, time or place in which he is not willing to reach out and help you. He is literally the father of our spirits. Our lives were planned from the beginning to be touched by His hand - He has a purpose and a plan for all of us. I know that He is willing to reach much farther for us than most of us have any idea. He loves us so very much we cannot comprehend.
I have felt and seen for myself the power of Jesus Christ's sacrifice. He has suffered and understands our every pain, sorrow, mistake and illness. He is the Light and the Hope of the World. He extends his forgiveness and his mercy to all who are willing to receive it and change for the better. I know that, though we cannot be perfect in this life, the grace of Jesus Christ will make up the difference if we keep trying our very best.
Because of His plan, I know that all of our trials are allowed for our growth. God does not always remove challenges when we ask because if He did we would not learn very much. If it were all easy, we would not appreciate peace, happiness, or joy. His plan has given me hope for peace in this world, and eternal life in the world to come.

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Annette answered…
Life is full of many challenges, as all of us know. My challenges have been many from growing up in a big family, being the oldest, to leaving home for college, career, and various journeys in my life. In addition, I've had many health challenges, my first was being born Hard of Hearing. Having any type of hearing loss poses challenges. Communication is an essential part of life, getting a good job, providing for the necessities of life, getting a good education and finding success in life.
I would think this is all but no, more lesson are to be learned. Years later I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis which put me in the hospital a few times, faced several surgeries, and now learning to live with diabetes. You'd think this would be enough.
So why? Why all of this? Shouldn't I just give up and feel sorry for myself?
The Plan of Happiness has been my answer to all of these questions. Happiness, how can I say this?
The Plan of Happiness helps me understand the purpose of life. I know where I came from, who I am: a daughter of a loving Father in Heaven who send me off to school - mortal earth - to live, grow, learn, and become like Him; a desire of any loving parent. This choice was mine before I came here, and lovingly supported by my Heavenly Father. I'm so grateful for this experience. I have a body that teaches me my limits but at the same time helps me learn to empathize with the challenges of others and learn to serve them. It also stretches me and makes me a stronger, wiser, happier daughter.
Then, when my mortal / earthly schooling is done, I'll graduate (death) and go back Home. This is possible with the help of our Elder Brother, Jesus Christ through his Atonement and Resurrection. Life does not end here but is just a small part of our eternal learning experience. This keeps me going no matter where my journey takes me or what challenges and experiences come my way. It gives me hope and courage to continue another day.

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Jared answered…
When i was nine years old my two sisters were invited to go sking with my sister-in-laws family. I wanted to go but my mom said no. The morning came that they went sking and i called out to my sisters "have fun, don't die." later that night i was playing my favortie video game when my dad yells "Jared we have to go you sisters been in a bad sking accedent!" I ran down staris and grabed my shoes and jumped in the Yukon with my mom and dad. We headed for the hospital. I rember praying my little heart out as much as i could with all the faith that she would be ok. But i couldnt shake the feeling that she wouldn't be. The hospital that she was at was three hours away which seemed to be the longest drive i had ever been on in my life. We were about half way when my mom finally called the hospital my heart was racing and when my mom said " no, no, she cant be" i knew that my sister that i loved was gone. My dad pulled off to the side of the road and comforted my mom. All i could think of was maybe it was not the right name maybe they got the names mixed up. my mom told me that it was not a mistake and that she was gone. I tried to accept the fact that she was gone. I layed down on the seat and just cried and creid until i fell asleep. When we arrived at the hospital we met my other sister and sister-in-laws family and comforted each other. Then we went back to see my sister. When i saw her i couldnt help but cry knowing that she was not coming home with us. The next night i was praying and asking Heavenly Father where she was and telling him i wanted her back. As i was kneeling i felt a warm feeling and i felt like his arms were around me and saying "It is ok she is with me, you just cant see her right now but she is always with you and she will always be your sister." when i recieved this i felt better i still missed her but knowing this plan i know that i will still be her brother for all eternity, becasue my family is sealed in the temple for all time and eternity!

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Pat answered…
When I was very young my parents were killed in an airplane accident. There was a time when I felt as if it wasn't fair and I was angry with God. After fervent prayer, study and listening to the Holy Ghost, I learned that the Plan of Happiness was just that! My parents had accomplished all those things our Heavenly Father had asked of them while in this life - now it was my turn to do the same. I had people here who truly loved me and helped me along this journey of life. I was not alone! It changed my outllook on this life, but especially what I have to look forward to when my work here is done. Now enjoy!

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Emily answered…
When I was 16 years old, my oldest sister passed away. This was devastating to my family. It was unexpected and details about her death were unknown for a few days. During that time and the next few months, I was drawn to my knees for deep prayer and reflection on the question of "Why?" I received a great feeling of comfort knowing that I would have the chance to see my sister again. I know that I am sealed to my family forever because my parents were married in the temple. While I was still incredible sad about the loss of my sister, there was always the comfort that we would be together again. That comfort is something provided by gospel. I know the Plan of Happiness is a true principle. Of course I would have preferred to have my sister alive but because I know that the Plan of Happiness is true I was able to find happiness in the memories of my sister and the knowledge that we will meet again.

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Xinru answered…
Growing up I was like all of the overachieving students out there, chasing after every extra-curricular activity, every award and every prestigious internship, traveling the world to compete and tour and become the best. In college, I was surrounded by future investment bankers, high-tech CEOs and politicians who were all very busy trying to be very successful in life. My roommate and I even had to put lunch on our calendars to be able to meet once every few months. Although I was very “successful” by our society’s standards, as each year passed, each achievement was less exciting and less fulfilling. It was like I was just climbing and climbing and there was no real end – you can always earn more money, collect more accolades, and have bigger and better material things, but where does it lead you? As a child, I used to cry at night thinking about wasted efforts and lost possessions once we pass away. What was the point of it all? Ever since learning about the gospel and the Plan of Happiness, I’ve found true joy and peace. My point of conversion came when I was having heart problems which landed me in the Emergency Room. My mother was hysterical, the attendants were scolding me for not having come in earlier and they were telling me about the many extreme measures they would have to put me through. The first of these was to stop my heart and hope that it would reset on it’s own. At that moment, with all of the hysteria surrounding me, my one thought was, “Do I truly believe the Gospel is true? Would I be baptized?” An extreme calm came over me and I knew that it was true. I was prepared for whatever was to come, all that mattered was that I had made a decision to be baptized and I knew everything would be okay. Consequently, my calmness was actually what made the very first attempt at resetting my heart successful. From that point on, I’ve only been blessed in greater and greater ways as I’ve applied the principles of the gospel to my life.

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Jonathan answered…
For the first time in my life, I understand that I am truly a child of a Heavenly Father, that Jesus is my Elder Brother who loves me dearly and advocates on my behalf, that I am a SPIRIT undergoing a MORTAL experience and not the opposite, and I now fully understand the true nature of Heaven.

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Peter answered…
My wife and I had a difficult time starting a family. We tried for several years and eventually decided to adopt a child. Just when an expectant birth mother decided to place her child with us, we found out we were pregnant again. This time, things were going well and we got very excited. We enjoyed the months waiting for our son to be born as any young couple would and prepared ourselves for this life-changing event. A few weeks before the due date, my wife started feeling sick. The next day, she began having contractions and went to the hospital. They found that the baby was in distress and set to work to perform an emergency C-Section. Within minutes our son was born.
A couple hours later he was transferred to a children's hospital because he was having difficulty breathing. Although we were very concerned, our hope grew over the next 36 hours as his condition seemed to improve.
That next evening, the day after his birth, the results of an MRI of his brain came back. They found severe damage caused by lack of oxygen some time prior to his birth. The extent of the damage was so great that he was not expected to live much longer. We had to make the difficult decision whether to pull his life support to allow him to pass away much quicker.
After much prayer, and many tears, it was done. The next morning, my wife and I spent the last 4 hours of his life in a small room with our family surrounding us.
We felt so much peace in that hospital room as we quietly watched him and cared for him. Many hearts were softened and turned to God as each had their chance to hold him or listen to his small, faint heart.
I have felt the Savior’s Atonement work in my life in many instances and learned he is able to forgive my sins because he paid for them. I have felt the limitless healing power that can also come through the Atonement. Jesus Christ knows my sorrow and helped to fill the emptiness I felt with peace.
I know that God has a plan for us. There is purpose to this life, and even for children like our son who pass away, there is a purpose. Through His Plan of Happiness, I have hope because I know that I will be with my son again, that my daughters will meet him, and that our family will be together again.

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Maia answered…
When the missionaries presented the Plan of Salvation to me, I said to them, "This is the information that I have been waiting my whole life to hear." Learning that I had lived before in a premortal world with God, and especially learning what happens after death, brought peace to my soul. My knowledge of the Plan has helped me cope with the loss of loved ones and helps me understand my place in this world. Most importantly, though, it helps me know that I am a beloved daughter of a loving Heavenly Father who loved me long before I came here, who gave me gifts to use here on this earth, and who looks forward to my return home! Knowing this helps me in my toughest times, and learning about and understanding the Plan of Salvation has changed my life for the better!

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Tyrone answered…
When I was 14 my older brother was killed is a motorcycle accident. Being just two years older than me, Colter and I were very close. His death was very difficult on my family and me personally. I knew even at that age that I had shut down emotionally for a time.
My knowledge of the Plan of Happiness helped me to cope with my loss. I knew then, as much as I know now, that life doesn't end here on earth. We each have an opportunity to be with our beloved family members again after we die.
Because my family was sealed together in one of God's holy temples, I know that I am linked to my brother and that I will see him again. Even though we are separated for a short time one day I will see him, hug him, and tell him how much I love him.

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Laurie answered…
The day before my husbands' and my 25th wedding anniversary I was diagnosed with breast cancer. We had always planned on growing old together and now this news seemed to threaten that. It was a frightening experience to go through for me, but all along I drew upon my knowledge that through Heavenly Father's plan, families can be together again after death. I knew that if my life ended because of this cancer, I would see and be with my wonderful children and and husband again. It was that faith that helped me deal with so many uncertainties at that time. I am grateful that cancer did not take my life. I am a survivor of almost ten years now and the Plan of Happiness has even more meaning and importance in the lives of our family. We don't ever take our lives for granted and try to spread a little hope and sunshine around to others. Our family has built great memories together as we have helped with the American Cancer Society Relay for Life. Our efforts a couple of years ago were in honor of a dear friend and neighbor who was struggling with cancer and has since passed away.
Our testimonies of Heavenly Father's Plan has been a great strength to me and also my family. I hope I can share the hope and joy that it brings with others.

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James answered…
My knowledge of the Plan of happiness has greatly benifited me. because when i was about fourteen year old the only father figure in my life had just past away. and at that time in my life i felt very venerable i felt like i had no where to turn. i started going down a not so good path. Then one day a few years later i was at a youth group event and i was just sitting of to the side. The reason i was there was because in my heart i knew i was missing something. Then the leader of our congregation came and spock with me. And as i spock with him, i felt something in me want to change and i started reading the scriptures again. As i read, i desired to change things. And as i have read, i have learned of the Plan of happiness which is that familys can be together for ever, If we follow his teachings of faith, repentance, baptism, having the holy ghost in our lives and continuing on in that path. Pray about it!! :)

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Colton answered…
Because of the plan of happiness i know that i can live with my family for eternity/ forever and can also be in the presence of our heavenly father and jesus christ with my family for eternity!!

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Steve. answered…
I believe that knowing about Heavenly Father's gift of an eternal life with our family has greatly increased the way that I live my life. I try very hard to show my children that I love them and accept them for the people that they are. I believe that if I live righteously and do the things that He asks of me, I will have not only harmony in my home, but also the opportunity to be with the people that I love forever. I think it helps me live more patiently. I believe that I show more love to others because of this. I also believe that I have more love for those around me knowing that they can have the same thing as me.

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Travis answered…
In February 2010 my wife and I were blessed enough to be able to give birth to our first child, a sweet baby girl named Hazel. Unfortunately due to developmental complications Hazel wasn't expected to live. We were able to spend seven days with our little angel before she had to return to our Father in Heaven. Many people would wonder why a loving God would allow this to happen. Because of the knowledge we have of God's plan we know that we will not only be able to see Hazel again but that we can be a family forever. Sometimes even that knowledge doesn't dull the pain but at least we know that we only have to be apart for a small amount of time. I know that my daughter is waiting for us and I will hold her again someday.

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Marilee answered…
The Plan of Happiness teaches me that I am a spirit child of God. I lived in Heaven before I came to earth. I have a purpose here on Earth. I am preparing myself to return to live with my Heavenly Father again. Knowing why I am here on Earth makes it easier for me to make good choices. It also helps me when I struggle with the trials of life. I can look at the trial and ask, "What am I learning as a result of this trial?" I have realised that even though I have had more trials in my life than I expected I have been blessed through each one and I have learned so much I couldn't have learned any other way.

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Danny answered…
When I was 13, one of my best friends was killed in a car accident. She was in my ward at church and our community was greatly impacted by this event. She was a wonderful example of faith and obedience and it was really hard to think that we weren't going to be able to see her anymore. I found out through prayer that there is life after death. I recieved an answer from my Father in Heaven that I will be able to see my friend again. I know my friend lives and that through the Atonement and Resurrection of Jesus Christ all of us will be able to see each other again. I know God loves us and that if we live righteously we can live with Him again. This blessing has changed my life significantly and made me want to live my life in a way that I can someday live with my loved one's in the presence of God.

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Stephanie answered…
I am thankful each day when I remember that because of what Jesus did for me, I can repent of my sins and shortcomings. None of us are perfect, and that is why we have a perfect example in Jesus to show us how we can do better. He died for us so that we can be forgiven and be able to return to live with Heavenly Father and Jesus again someday. As I partake of the sacrament each week at church, I remember the promises I made when I was baptized and in return I can be forgiven and renewed each week. I know that because Jesus was resurrected, we will all be resurrected and that gives me a better perspective on this life. It also helps me realize that this life is short compared to eternity.

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Nancy answered…
My mother-in-law was diagnosed with cancer which had spread throughout her body. She came to live with us for the final weeks of her life. Having a knowledge that our Heavenly Father has a Plan of Happiness for each one of us greatly helped me and my family in accepting the passing of our beloved family member. I know that my mother-in-law had come to earth to receive a body for her spirit. She had lived a hard, but happy life and was content with the outcome. I know that her spirit still lives and we will someday see her again, without the pain of her mortal body. I know that we are here on earth to learn and grow, using this mortal body that Heavenly Father has created for us, and be able to learn those things that we need to return again to live with him. Knowing Heavenly Father's plan for me helps give me a reason and purpose for my life and helps me in all the daily decisions I make.

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Ian answered…
Having the knowledge of the Plan of Happiness has allowed me to have a deeper understanding about what thing i need to put in priority in my life.

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Dan answered…
My grandfather died a few months ago (middle of the year 2011). I, at the time, was serving others in Australia as a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I recieved a telephone call from the President over my area, in which I served. He told me of news that he recieved from my mother. She emailed him explaining the devastating news of my dearly loved grandfather passing away. At the start of hearing this, tears filled my eyes and worry came to me about my grandmother. I prayed that she would be alright as she had no spouse to care for her anymore. I also prayed to feel comfort knowing that my granpa would be alright and that my grandma would be protected. Immediately, I felt peace within and knew that there are other people on the other side comforting my grandma here on earth and also my grandpa who has passed on. The truth I have recieved from the Gospel of Jesus Christ (taught in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints) has given me an unshaking testimony of its truth. I know that we will see our family (those we love) again. We will see all who we care about. I also know that through covenants with God, we can live with our families together forever. Knowing this helps me know I will see my grandpa and live with him again.

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Melissa Ellen answered…
Knowledge of the Plan of Happiness, or God's plan for his children on earth, gives me hope. Knowing that I am a daughter of a Heavenly Father and that he loves me helps give my life a direction and a meaning. I am grateful every day for a loving Father in Heaven who only wants the best for me and is willing to guide me as I make decisions. I am also grateful for my agency--that Heavenly Father has given me the ability to choose for myself the path I want to take, even if it's not the best path.
My favorite part of the Plan of Salvation is that I can live forever with my family. My family is the greatest source of joy in my life, and I cannot imagine how empty eternity would feel without them. I know that the relationships I have with my parents, brothers and sisters can continue, even after our mortal lives have ended. With that goal in mind, I strive everyday to do my very best. Although I fall short at times, I know that Jesus Christ atoned for my sins and if I am willing to repent, He can make up the difference. I am so grateful for the Plan of Salvation and the infinite wisdom of our Heavenly Father.

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Ross answered…
Knowing that there is a plan for each and every one of us has given me such a feeling of peace and hope. I know that my family will be able to continue to learn and love and grow, long after this life is over. Knowing the plan of our Heavenly Father gives me direction and encourages me to be my best, because I know I am a child of God. He is our Father, he sent us to earth to prove ourselves, and through faith, and obedience, we can return to live with Him again.

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Teverly answered…
The Plan of Happiness has made all the difference in my life. I can't imagine living without knowing that my Savior lives and loves me and my Heavenly Father loves me too. He planned for me to come down on Earth in a family and have experiences to try my faith to see if I remain worthy. The choices I make remains up to me to choose but I have to accept the consequences of my choices and can't blame anyone else if I make wrong ones. I am so grateful for Repentance so I can change and overcome the wrong choices and get back on the right path that leads me closer to my Heavenly Father and His plan for my happiness. I am so much happier when I make good choices and the best way to do this is when I stick with the Basics of the Gospel...Prayer, Scripture Reading, Temple Attendance, Church Attendance and other Church Related meetings, Family Home Evening, Family meals together where we talk over our day, week and other things

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Bob Stratton answered…
My happiest moments are with my wife and family! The idea that my family will cease to exist at the death of either of us is frightening.
When God married Adam and Eve, do you think He said the words "until death do you part"? Was death even in the picture yet?
God made amazing promises to Adam and Eve (and to all of us) and performed sacred holy ordinances at that time so that they, conditional upon their obedience, could be a happy family forever! Common sense tells me those promises were made.
After the fall, Adam was given the law of repentance. We believe that Adam and Eve did repent and eventually saw those promises fulfilled and that they are at this very day a very happily married couple with a very large and very happy family!
Those sacred promises and ordinances were restored through the Prophet Joseph Smith in the early 1800s. Each lawfully married couple has the opportunity to obtain them in any of the Holy Mormon temples -- and nowhere else!
Frequent trips to the temples have increased my knowledge and strengthened my belief and commitment to these things. I now look at my family differently. I know that my chance for eternal happiness is closely tied to my family just as is my chance for earthly happiness.
I fully understand why there is no happiness to be gained and absolutely everything to be lost through any extra-marital relationship.
There is no room in my home for the bad temper that I use to have. Just a year or so of regular temple attendance learning more about God's plan of happiness gave me the strength and motivation to overcome my temper after years of total failure and much loss of self-respect.
My love and devotion to my wife and the loving and tender way I treat her has brought me more happiness here than I thought possible! It boggles my mind to think how much better it can be in God and Christ's eternal heaven!
It was the obvious (to me) truth of the things Joseph Smith taught that convinced me he was and is a prophet of God!

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Cate answered…
I had always suspected that this life was a trial or test. Knowing for certain that this is true, I am challenged to take things more seriously in some ways and to relax about others. I appreciate that my sensitivity to certain influences is a gift that guides me regarding what is right and good and what is unneeded or unhealthy for me.

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Paige answered…
I am grateful to know God's Plan of Happiness for us. I know that my Father in Heaven has a purpose for me here on this earth and that he sent me here for a reason. I know that this life is meant to be a test of my faith and to gain a physical body to learn how to use. I know that if I am married in the temple with the proper Priesthood authority that I will live with my husband after we die, in heaven. Because I know that, I chose to be married in the temple and was sealed to my husband for time and for all eternity. This gives me great joy and happiness to know that I get to be with my family and husband after this earth life. I know that my Father in Heaven wants me to be happy here, but that he gives us tests and trials to become stronger and better. But overall in the end I know that if I repent and do my best to be obedient, that I will return to live with Christ and God again.

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Brandon answered…
My knowledge of the Plan of Happiness has changed and benefited my life greatly. In the pre-mortal life, we had to choose if we wanted to follow Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ or Lucifer (Satan). Because we were born and are here today, that means that we chose to follow Heavenly Father's and Jesus Christ's plan. Part of that plan was that we have free agency, or the right to choose for ourselves. Our life here on Earth is a big test. After we die, our spirits go to the Spirit World. We learn and progress and are with our deceased loved ones there. We are later judged and go to one of the three kingdoms (degrees) of glory.
Knowing this has benefited my life greatly. I am glad to know that I chose to follow Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ and that I lived with them in the pre-mortal life. It has also helped me to want to make the right choices in my life. I am also glad to know that if I make the right choices and repent of the wrong choices I've made, I can live with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ again after death.

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Ari answered…
Because of the Plan of Happiness, I know that I have a purpose in this life. I know that my life did not begin when I was born, and will not end when I die. I know that I can be with those I love for eternity. Because of my knowledge of this plan, I know our trials are just God's way of shaping us into the people He wants us to be. Our hardships have a purpose, and they are truly for our good.

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Mitch answered…
As I have stated my Mother died of cancer a few years back. It is tarrible for both patient and family.
because my mother needed care and my father had to work in order to pay for the treatment. I made the decision to stay at home and care for my mother help around the house and help my little sister.
For about a year I watched as my mother wasted away. I would go into detail except I don't want to remember my mom wasting away instead I would rather remember the time that I spent with her. and I am sadend to say because I was in deniel of the inevitible I did not spend as much time with my mom as I could have.
after about a year my family had the rare chance to have a family home evening I am saded to say that previously we had disregarded the prophets command of family home evening once a week again something I regret.
But for this nite we sange songs as a family we talked about the exsperiances that we had had the adventures and fun. My Mom exspressed how much she loved each of us. after a while she grew tired as she often did because of the pain and medication, and we decided to sing one more song I cant remember clearly but I am pritty sure that it was Families Can Be Togather Forever.
After we had finnished singing my mother slipt off into eternity. Although I have a blury memory of things and I can not describe things worth beens. It was at this time of deep sadness that I felt the holy ghost testify of the truth and Joy that Families are eternal and that I will be able to see my mother again as long as I do all I can to be worthy like she was.

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Christi answered…
Because of the Plan of Happiness, I know what my end-goal is. I'm not aimless. I have direction that gives me peace. I know that I have a Father in Heaven that loves me and is very aware of me and my life. I know that I have a Savior that gave his life for me so that I could return to live with Him and our Heavenly Father. I know that I will have hardships as well as joy and I will always have joy when I follow His commandments. I know that this life is a learning opportunity to help me become a better person through my good and bad choices. Because of this knowledge I have so much peace that even when life may seem difficult that I can always call on my Father in prayer and ask for His guidance. When I align my life to His plan for me, I am happy!

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Rachel answered…
When I was twelve years old, my father died of colon cancer. It was an extremely difficult time for our family. My young mother was left to raise five children on her own. But, because of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and the Plan of Happiness, what could have been a complete tragedy, became the center of my faith. Because of my beliefs in God and in his plan, I knew that the death that separated me from my father was only temporary. I knew that I would see him again someday. I knew that even after death, my family could still be a family in Heaven. I treasure that knowledge. It has encouraged me to make good choices so that I would be worthy to go to Heaven someday. It has been the glue that has held me to this Church. I know that it is real.

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Brandon answered…
Knowing where I was before this earthly life, what my purpose is here now, and where I am going afterward has made all the difference to me and my family. Knowing about God's plan for us and how we are divine sons and daughters of God helps my family and me to keep a happy and peaceful perspective on life, even in the face of great disaster, war, and pain in the world around us. In brief, it fills our home and lives with peace.

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Derek answered…
It has benefited my life because I know that as long as I live righteously and follow the guidelines of the Church, I can eventually make it to Heaven and live with Christ once again!

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Steve answered…
When I was 9 years old, My brother was diagnosed with Leukemia, in July and he passed the next November, My Maternal grandmother was suffering from cancer during the same time and Died the following January. In April My Fraternal grandparents died a sudden and tragic death. I take great joy in knowing if I live worthy, participate in the Saving ordinances of the Holy Priesthood we can live together for all eternity. Our relations need not end at death. To enjoy all of what God's great plan offers us we must Study, Pray, and do as he wishes.
Satan's greatest tool is thwarting the family ties and leading us to believe that the gospel is not important. Leading us to follow the ways of the world, and not the spirit.

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Mark answered…
Our first son died after living only eight hours. As grief stricken parents, we cried every night for many months because of the loss. But our knowledge that we would be with him again after this life because of the Savior's atonement and resurrection has provided an enduring peace in our lives. Luke's six living brothers and sisters know that they will live with him again within the bonds of an eternal family unit.

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Sister Heather Lopez! answered…
My knowledge of the Plan of Happiness has changed my life dramatically. When I was younger I believed it and thought it was a cool principle but I didn't really understand it. When my father passed away I was 10. That is when the Plan of Happiness really impacted my life. I'm so glad for the knowledge of it's teachings. I know I will one day be able to see my father again. I believe it with all my heart. I know that if I live my life righteously that I will be able to return to Heaven and God again. I know that I will be able to be bound still with my earthly family there as well.

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Tamee answered…
Having a knowledge of the Plan of Happiness has shaped the way I do everything. It has helped me to keep an eternal perspective in all of the things I do. For example, if I do not do as well on a test as I would have liked, I can pray to Heavenly Father to help me comforted and remember the things that are of eternal value. It is important to get an education, but I do not have to be perfect in my scores as long as I am doing my best. The gospel is what brings me happiness.

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Steve answered…
God's plan for me has led me in every major decision of my life. Knowing that there is a reason I'm here helps me to make choices that will make me a better person and more like the savior. If there were no plan, it really wouldn't matter what we did in this life and I know that can't be true. I know God has a plan for each of us and he has once again made it clear through a prophet in our day. It is always comforting to know where you are going. Like a road map, God's plan of Happiness helps us know where we are going.

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Tori answered…
This knowledge has changed my life by allowing me to feel a sense of peace, security, and contentment. I know that my Father in Heaven loves me and wants nothing more than for me to be happy. Not the world's view of happiness but a real, concrete and eternal happiness. Knowing that my Heavenly Father has provided me a way to repent and return home to him, sealed eternally to my family, brings me more joy than I could ever ask for.

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Julie. answered…
My knowledge of the Plan of Happiness has impacted everything in my life. it is so easy in life to get caught up in the little frustrations of life, but a knowledge of the plan that God has for us and our purpose here in life helps me to deal with the struggles of every day. The more I study my scriptures, pray, and attend the temple, the more I am reminded about the plan that God has for me and the happier I am. No one in this life is immune to hardships, but knowing that our ultimate goal is to overcome those hardships and return to live with my Heavenly Father again helps me to keep an optimistic outlook during those hardships.

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Chris answered…
When I was in high school, unknowingly, I lived many of the standards expected of Latter-day Saint youth. Though it was not expected by my parents, I did not drink alcohol, I remained sexually pure and I used clean language. And I was happy. My parents divorced about this time and I went off to college, 500 miles away from home. And I began to fall to the pressure of my now long-distance family and my friends to do the "normal" things teenagers and twenty-somethings do. As I gave up my standards, I gave up my happiness. I was sinking into despair. My grades, work and relationships did not suffer, because I could act. But my deep, personal happiness was gone. It was about this time that I met a friend, one who was different; one who had the standards I had once held for myself. He began to teach me the gospel and about God's plan of happiness. I started to understand who I was and I returned to living my life according to the laws of God. The more I understood of the Plan of Happiness, the more I trusted God, joy returned to my life; a deep, lasting joy that can only come from knowing and living God's Plan of Happiness.

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Kristin answered…
My understand of the Plan of Happiness has benefited me in so many ways. It helped sustain me through the death of a friend in high school because I knew that she wasn't lost to us forever. It helps keep my life in perspective. If I don't do as well as I want to on a test or in a class, if that cute guy from ballroom isn't interested in me, if my life isn't going the way I had hoped it would, my understanding of the Plan of Happiness reminds me that it's not the end of the world. Our Father in Heaven has a plan specifically for me, and I just have to trust that if I'm praying and staying on the path laid out by Christ, He will help me find the way that will lead to my happiness. His way is always better than what I think I want, and sometimes I just have to practice a little patience to see where it is that I'm supposed to go.

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Crystal answered…
I lost my mother when I was 18 years old. She was and is my best friend. It was very difficult to lose her companionship in this life. And yet, knowing that she is truly in a better place and no longer suffering brings me so much peace. I still miss her very much, but I know I will see her again. I know that we can be together as family forever because we are a "Forever Family."
It is also a comfort to know that my Heavenly Father had a plan when He sent us to this earth. Our life here is not some accident. Life is meant to be difficult at times--you can't grow stronger without a little sweat. Heavenly Father will help us find our potential, if only we exercise a particle of faith. It's amazing!

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Nathan answered…
Our Heavenly Father's Plan of Happiness has really helped me in this life. When I was 11 years old, my older brother was diagnosed with Neuroblastoma cancer. During his four year struggle with it there were many trips to the hospital, we even had to go to San Fransisco to get treatment. He passed away when I was 15. It's because of God's Plan of Happiness that I know I will get to be with my brother again. Families are eternal and can be together forever. Knowing what happens after we die gives me great hope for what the future holds.

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Jocelyn Winter answered…
The knowledge provided by this part of the Gospel answers many of life's big questions- who are we, why are we here, what is God's nature in relation to us, and what exists after and or even before life on earth. The answers provided by the Lord are for all to hear. I feel a sense of peace, happingess, and gratitude to the Lord as I learn about and incorporate His teachings. We are lucky to be here, despite the hardships we experience in life.

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Melissa answered…
My dad died when I was young and before I became a Mormon. When I became a Mormon and learned that our family would be all together again for eternity, some of the feelings of loss and devastation were lessened, and I was able to look forward to seeing him again. I was also taught that he would have the same opportunity to learn the things I was learning - only, in the next life, so to speak.

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Isabella answered…
It has benefited my life by letting me better understand Heavenly Father. As a member of the Catholic church, I did not understand why a God so loving would even make it a possibility for his children to enter a place like "Hell" after they had died. It contradicted everything that I was taught in my religion classes and I what I believed personally in my heart.
Afer having been exposed to what the LDS Church believed about our lives before the ones we have now, and the one that is waiting for us after we die, I am not only proud of myself for knowing Heavenly Father was more merciful than I had been previously taught, but also for His mercy in general. He knows that we are not perfect, and for us to strive for perfection is naive, but as long as we attempt to better ourselves daily, he promises us a place in Heaven, whatever Kingdom that may be is for God to decide.
I have peace knowing that Heavenly Father understands my struggles, and does not let them define my existance, and is willing to give me the gift of a Kingdom of Heaven I deserve.

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Austin answered…
I have lost a couple close friends to accidents. Knowing the plan of happiness. I know they are in a better place. I know I will see them again. I know that through what Jesus Christ did we will all be resurrected and live together again.

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Bracken answered…
well i have just recently lost a really good friend. i love him to death and i will forever miss him untill im with him again. but becase of the plan of happiness i know that i will see him again its not just a good thought or idea but i really know that i wil see those who i love and have passed away. ive lost close friends and family to death but i know that its just temporal. its so great knowin that ill see them again.

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Ben answered…
The Plan of Happiness helps me understand that, if I do what is right, then I can be with my family forever. This makes everyday worth living, no matter what happens.

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Lauren answered…
I'm a girl that likes to have a plan! Uncertainty makes me anxious and I like knowing what I need to do or what comes after I complete the current task. This is why the Plan of Happiness provides such a foundation for me because it tells me exactly where I came from, why I'm living my life on this earth, and what will happen when I die. There's no guesswork and I take comfort in knowing what will happen when I leave this mortal life.
The Plan of Happiness has helped me as I've experienced the loss of family and friends throughout my life. While I am initially saddened by their deaths (as anyone would be), I know it is not the end for that person I love. They truly have gone to a better place and I know that I will be able to see them again if I live my life righteously. I know this Plan exists and provides the way for me to be reunited with my loved ones, our Heavenly Father, and our Savior, Jesus Christ.

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Craig answered…
So one day me and my missoinary partner were sitting in our apartment and it was late. We were planning for the next day when we get a phone call. This phone call was from a sister in the congragation that I was serving in. Her husband was not a member and he was dying of terminal cancer and he did not know much about god.
Well we were asked to teach him. We did teach him I still remember those lessons and the spirit at those lessons. He went from not knowing much to knowing that his heavenly father had a plan for him. It gave him answers to questions like. Were do we come from? Were are we going? What is the purpose of this life? as we met with him I could see the savoirs love for him and I knew that god loved him.
Just as god loves each and everyone of us. The knowledge of the plan of Happiness has changed my life because I know that I have a father in heaven that loves me and cares about what I do.

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Cody Meads answered…
My little sister, Breann, is mentaly handicapped. I love her so much and she is the sweetest little girl ever. Sometimes it's really hard to understand what she is saying and what she is trying to do. My older sister Megan, she one time had a dream about our little sister and they were in Heaven and Breann was normal. She could talk totaly normal and she could do what ever she wanted to do and she wouldn't have a siezure right in the middle of what she was doing. As the dream progressed she became more and more the way she is today. By the end of the dream she was totaly how she is today. Right before Megan woke up, Breann said in a normal way, "this is just a little glimpse of how Heaven will be". That means so much to me that I can be with my little sister and that she will be normal and she will be as happy as can be. I know that God has a plan for me and my family and I can live with them forever.

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Zak answered…
My knowledge of the Plan of Happiness has benefited me by giving me hope. Recently my Grandmother passed away. The Plan of Happiness gives me the assurance that I will get to see her again and that she is in a far happier place. I know that the Savior made it possible for all of us to return to live with God again and to be with our families forever. This strengthens the love i have for my family and helps me to grow closer to them.

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Travis answered…
In August 2009, my 19 year old sister passed away suddenly. It came as a shock to the entire family. She was loved by her family, friends and coworkers. She bettered everyone she came in contact with. It is easy to ask why god would allow such a good person to pass away when she could have touched so many lives. It's natural to miss and mourn her, but the knowledge of the Plan of Happiness gives hope. Even though she is separated from us now, we are still a family and will see her again in the life to come. This has brought comfort into my life and helped me to comfort others who face the same trial.

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Ryan answered…
Knowing where I came from, why I'm here on Earth, and what comes next after I die eases my anxiety and fear of death, as well as comforting me by instructing me on what I need to do to be prepared for the next life. Also, knowing that death is not the end of my relationship with my family, and that I will get to be with them again, has brought comfort and love into my life even in the middle of crushing sorrow and depression that comes from the passing of a loved one.

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Mark answered…
I served a 2-year mission for the Church in Seville, Spain from 1978-1980. That's actually where my testimony was strengthened the most. I think the greatest conversion to the gospel during my mission was MY OWN! It was really great seeing people change their lives after having the the Holy Ghost witness the truthfulness of the gospel to them.

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Madison answered…
Repeatedly in the scriptures, prophets talk about the "mysteries of God". In the Book of Mormon it says: " for he that diligently seeketh, shall find. And the mysteries of God shall be unfolded to them by the power of the Holy Ghost." (1Nephi 10:19) The Plan of Happiness is one of those mysteries of God. Not because its a secret, and God's is only going to tell certain people. But because he will only tell those who diligently seek! We as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints have answers to some of life's greatest questions! We KNOW where we came from, we KNOW why we're here on this earth, and we KNOW where we are going when we die. There is no doubt. There is no fear. It gives us courage to do what it right, it gives us a reason to make good choices, and it teaches us, that this life is truly a gift from our Father in Heaven

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Mason answered…
The Plan of Happiness is exactly what it sounds like. It is the plan for families to be together forever. My family is one of the most important things in my life. They have helped me learn and become the person I am today. To know that it can all continue into the eternities is the greatest blessing to me.

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Minerva answered…
It has given me hope in the things to come in life. I know that although I am not perfect, but if I try to follow Jesus Christ, I can be happy. I can seek Him guidance in all things. This brings me peace and joy. The Plan of Happiness is simple and beautiful. I love to hear and learn of such plan that a loving Heavenly Father has created for the happiness of His children.

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Roberta answered…
The Plan of Happiness give my life focus. Before I knew of it, I was adrift as to what my life was supposed to be. It seemed like life was too short to accomplish all that my heart desired. I felt empty in not knowing for sure what I was supposed to do with my life and where I'd end up after this life. It was scary thinking about death. The troubles in life and in the world seemed senseless--all for nothing. The Plan of Happiness gives me a reason for living my life in the best way I can and striving to be a better person. It gives me joy and a taste of what is to come.

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Fred answered…
The Plan of Happiness, or the Plan of Salvation as it is sometimes called, is the most comprised of the most important events in human history: the creation, the Fall of Man, and the Atonement.
As we gain knowledge of the plan of Happiness we learn how to live a good life and we learn how we should behave. It als gives us a purpose in this life.
I remember when I was a teenager I worked for a local Burger King restaurant. I had worked there for a few years and one day a co-worker that I wasn't really familiar with approached me. He asked me how I can be so happy all the time. He said that he had been watching me and that I always seemed so happy and that no matter what I did I just never seemed to get upset. Sadly at that time I did not share the Gospel with him as I should have.
But the reason I was so happy then, and I am so happy now, is because I know what it takes to live a happy life. I still have people comment on how I am always cheerful and always happy and it is because I make a conscious choice to live my life in such a way that the Spirit can be around me and because I know I am living my life the way Heavenly Father wants to me to. And when you are full of the Spirit, it's hard to let the little things get you down!

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Daniel answered…
It has given me a different outlook on my life and what is really important. I have asked why things happen in this life and the plan of Happiness has helped me receive the answer. If we don't have the knowledge of why we are here, what we have to do, what I can look forward to in the future, life would be harder. The Plan of Happiness has helped me understand and accept why I am here. It is not by accident we are here in this life. I am very grateful for the knowledge of a loving Heavenly Father that wants what is best for me. He blesses us here and gives us so much help on our journey back to him. When we have a Plan, or map it is easier to follow it. When we don't have a focus in life we may not end up where we need to be. The Plan of Happiness helps me because it is true designed by God. It is a perfect plan. It helps me keep focused when times get hard. It helps remind me when friends and loved one leave this life that all of it is part of the plan. I know I will see my loved one again and I have the hope, desire, faith, and dedication to do what God has asked of me.

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Brooke answered…
When the missionaries taught me of our Heavenly Father's perfect plan, it sounded so familiar. The more they taught, the more I thought to myself, "This makes a lot of sense!" It is so comforting to know of myy place in that perfect plan. Each one of us as individual daughters and sons of our loving Heavenly Father has a specific place in that plan. When loved-ones pass on, I have no doubt in my mind where they are going. I have devoted my life so far to caring for and loving God's most special children, those with special needs. I anxiously await the day when they recieve their perfected bodies from Heavenly Father and are able to do things like walk with and talk to me, which they couldn't do in this life.
I had the most amazing experience today as I went with the missionaries to teach a wonderful young lady who is interested in learning more about the Gospel. I drew her a picture of God's plan and as I explained it to her, I could tell she was having the same feelings that I did when the missionaries taught me the plan years ago. I felt the spirit so strong as I testified to her of the plan and of her place in it. She knew and I knew that this truly was God's plan. It has changed the lives of countless people who have walked and do walk the earth today. It can bless your life too if you let it.

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Karisa answered…
The Gospel of Jesus Christ, also known as the Great Plan of Happiness, shapes and directs my life daily as I strive to be obedient to its teachings and come unto Christ. I know that prior to this earth life, each of us lived with our Heavenly parents and Jesus Christ. We were taught the Plan of Happiness, which included a mortal component here on earth. Each of us on earth today accepted that plan in the pre-mortal life and desired to come to earth, gain a body, obtain agency, and eventually return back to live in the presence of our Heavenly parents. I know through the righteous use of our agency while here on earth, we can obtain all blessings that have been promised to us. Through the proper making and keeping of covenants and ordinances, such as baptism, confirmation, and temple attendance, we can gain not only happiness in this mortal life, but also eternal glory in the life to come. Because we are not perfect mortal beings, Heavenly Father has provided a way to return to Him. We can be forgiven of all our sins through the Atonement of Jesus Christ if we will but repent and come unto Him in humility with a desire to change our hearts. In addition to forgiveness, the Atonement also provides comfort and peace through times of trial, sickness, loneliness, etc.
After parting from this earth life, we will be judged according to our earthly desires and actions. Depending on our individual obedience to the precepts of the Gospel, we may have the opportunity to live in the presence of our Heavenly parents. In addition, through the proper ordinances, we can be sealed to and live with our families for eternity.
I am grateful for my understanding of the Great Plan of Happiness, and, as a result, my desire to be obedient as well as share this message of happiness with others. Our Heavenly Father loves us so much and wants each of us to return unto Him. He has provided the plan and means with which to fulfill it and it is only through the true Gospel of Jesus Christ.

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James Danielson answered…
Throughout my life I have lost loved ones & while it is very difficult to overcome it is comforting to know that through His plan of Happiness after this life it is not "the end" it is only the beginning of our eternal journey. I am comforted to know that as long as I live my life in accordance to His Plan I can again return to live with Him someday & be reunited with my family, friends, & ancestors that have gone on before me.

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Kim answered…
The Plan of Happiness has always given me a great deal of purpose and meaning in my life. When you know that you are a divine child of God that is destined to see their father again, you will want nothing more than to do all you can to be the person he wants you to be, and knows you can be.

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Brenna answered…
The knowledge of the Plan of Happiness benefits my life very day because I know where I came from, why I am here and where I hope to go. I know that before I came to live on this Earth I was a spirit child of my Father in Heaven as we all are. I was sent here to gain a body, experience earth life, use my agency to choose good or evil, make eternal family bonds and return home to my Father in Heaven someday. No mater what happens in my life this knowledge always brings me peace and joy.

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Cassie Brook answered…
It reminds me that I have a purpose in life and that this isn't the end. That though my body may have its flaws and scars now, it won't always be that way. One day I will have a perfect body, until then, I just take care of the one I have.

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Ryan answered…
Knowing that God has a plan of happiness gives me an understanding that life did not begin here on earth, nor will it end here. The knowledge that we lived with God prior to living on this earth, that the choices that we make this life will determine what happens to us when we die helps my desire to do better each day.

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Lauren answered…
This plan has benefited my life in giving me a sense of direction. If I can know that the end result is to be with my Heavenly Father and Savior if I stay close to them in this life and do what they expect from me, I will live my life differently than what the world expects. What I find important changes. My family and how I treat them becomes the focus. The importance of sharing the gospel becomes more important because I want everyone else to at least have the chance of hearing about being with your family forever, even after lifes trials and pain and death.

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Dustin. answered…
Ever since I was little, I was taught that if we live the Gospel of Jesus Christ in this life, we will be able to live with our families forever, even after we die. This knowledge was important to me when my mother's parents passed away.
A few years ago, my grandmother was diagnosed with cancer. This news is always difficult to come by and I know it was especially hard for my mother. In an effort to help, my parents decided to take care of her in our home. My parents also bought a special, recliner chair to make it easier for her.
However, the cancer spread quickly. Though on the first day at our home my grandmother had strength to walk around, her strength quickly left her. All she could do was sit in her chair. The hardest thing for me was to see my grandmother suffer. I felt so sorry for her. After just a couple days in our home, my grandmother passed away.
Though death of family members is a difficult thing, knowledge of the Plan of Happiness makes life so much better. Because of God's wonderful Plan, I know that my grandmother's spirit is still alive and that I will get to see her once again. I cannot wait for that reunion!

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Andy answered…
It gives me perspective on what is really important in life. When the things of life seems stressful or overwhelming I try and view them through the context of the Plan of Happiness. By doing this they become less stressful and burdensome because I realize true joy is found in living the gospel.

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Tiffany answered…
First, I would describe the Plan of Happiness as a way for God to bless His children, not just in this life, but for all eternity. The decisions we make here do matter and will affect our happiness after we die.
I consider my knowledge of the plan of happiness the greatest gift I've been given. It gives me direction to questions large and small. It comforts me through the loss of a loved one. It gives me a strong identity and feeling of self-worth. Most importantly, it allows me endure trials and sorrows with a clear understand of their purpose in my life.
Basically, no matter what bad things may happen in my life, I am still happy because I know who I am, why I am here, and where I am going.

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Joycelyn answered…
The Plan of Happiness has helped me to know where I came from, who I am, and where I'm going. I know that I am a choice daughter of God, and I know that He loves every one of His children. I know that through living the commandments that we all can return to live with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ again.
The knowledge of the Plan of Happiness has influenced my choices as I know that correct choices aid in my growth and ensure that I stand as a witness of God in all things, at all times, and in all places.

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Saxxon answered…
In high school i lost some friends, and a close co-worker. as i have prayed and have read the scriptures i have come to realize i will see my friends again and i will see my family and i will be able to over come anything that is put in my path to test me. i've felt my saviors love and that has helped me over come these difficult times in my life.

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Crista answered…
Knowledge of the Plan of Happiness is key to happiness for our time on this earth. How can one truly be happy if they do not know what they are living for? As I make decisions in my life, I look at the big picture, and how that decision will affect me in the long run. If it's not going to lead me to eteranl happiness, I try not to bother with it. But I am only Human.

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Itzel answered…
The plan of Happiness gave eternal perspective, so that makes me a happier person, gives me the streng to overcome adversity, to smile while I remember those who are no longer in this earth, it provides to my soul a purpose an guide.

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Jenni Johansen answered…
To begin with the end in mind is the mantra of many success stories. As I have better understood who I am, why I'm here, and where I am going it has helped me to wake up each day with purpose. Striving to align my actions with my conscience helps me to live my fullest life.

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Brad answered…
I believe in Jesus Christ. I believe that everyone on this earth is a child of God. If the aforementioned items are true then Jesus Christ atoned for all of our sins and he made it possible for us to be forgiven and to live with him again.
No let's just say that my beliefs are not what other may believe and some may even claim that I am wrong. Even if I am wrong, how much better would the world be if everyone treated others as though they were their spiritual brothers and sisters? I do not fight with others; I do not yell at my wife or my kids. I do not get into confrontations or use harsh language towards anyone because I treat them as though they are my brother or sister. No even if this were not true, those people that I come in contact with are treated with respect and dignity. But since I know those things to be true I want them to feel that they are loved, even if they don't know me; I still respect them and their difference and I value who they are because they are my brothers and sisters.

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Brandon answered…
First, it has blessed me with peace of mind concerning death death does not frioghten me. Second, because God has a plan for all of us, I know that He has a plan for me and so there is a reason for the trials and afflictions that happen to me some are just because I make dumb choices of course. Third, it has allowed me to see how my choices have impact beyond death and that I must be careful.

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Laura Gunn answered…
I feel like every aspect of my life has been blessed by my knowledge of God's Plan of Happiness. This knowledge-- that I came to Earth for a reason, that God loves me and wants me to return to Him, that through the suffering of His son Jesus Christ I can return to Him, that all the pain and heartache of this life can have meaning and purpose, and that my family can be with me forever--changes everything. It gives me perspective and peace. It helps me keep my life balanced and put the most important things first. It makes me happier!

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Ronn answered…
New Question -- that I often encounter here in the south.
If God is a God of love, why does he let so many bad things happen to us? Why would he let a toddler be run over and killed? Why does he let good people who believe and follow him, suffer more than anyone should suffer? Why does he permit so many small innocent children to suffer greatly?
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This life is not a vacation. This life is a time to learn, to grow, and to be tested. If the test was super easy, because God removed all the hard problems, it would not be a nurturing test. Christ stated in Matthew 5:45 “That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sendeth rain on the just and the unjust.” Heavenly Father loves us and wants all of us to return to live with Him. But He will not force any one to heaven. He will not remove sorry, pain, and suffering from our lives. He will comfort us. He will remove part of the pain so we can bear it. It will not be easy, but it will be worth it. If we pass our life test, the rewards are enormous. The test must be representative of the reward. I bear testimony that He loves each of us. He knows each of us, and is aware of our trials. He will turn a tough situation into a positive one, that we can learn and grow by. I bear witness to this in the name of Jesus Christ.

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Kirstin. answered…
I lost my grandfather and great grandfather relatively close together--two of my closest friends in a single year. My heart was broken by the loss. My grandfather would never get the chance to meet my future husband, my great grandfather would not be able to play guitar with my children, and I was no longer able to talk to them when something went wrong in my life. It was a time of great sadness, but it was also a time that renewed my faith. In the LDS faith we believe in life after death and that families go on beyond the grave; I believe it with all of my heart. So, when my grandpa and great grandpa died, I knew it was not the end. My sadness at their passing was the ache of longing and the pain of missing them, just as I miss any good friend I am unable to see. I know without a doubt that I will be reunited with them, and I know that we will be a family again. That brings me such joy and comfort that it's unspeakable.
The Plan of Happiness exists to comfort us, strengthen us, and uplift us--and that's exactly what it does. Christ died to save us from our sins, but He also died to reunite us with our families, both mortal and eternal. Without my testimony of the Plan, life could be so much darker. Instead, I have hope. That hope has gotten me through some awful situations, and I know it will get me through even more. I just have to keep trying and becoming a better person so I can be with my family again.

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Kristina answered…
The knowledge of the Plan of Happiness has greatly benefitted my life. For example, when my grandpa and grandma died, even though I was sad, I was comforted because I knew that I would be able to see them again. Also, it gives me motivation to become the best person I can each day because I know that my actions will have consequences in the eternities. I am happy to know that I will see my family forever and that the whole purpose of God's work is to bring about our happiness.

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Garrett answered…
The Plan of Happiness lets me know that God is my Dad in Heaven. That knowledge helps me every day of my life. I know that he listens to my prayers and replies to them. I know he cares about me and wants to see me through to the end, which end is eternal life with Him and His Son and my family.
God's plan gives me direction and excitement. It gives me a feeling of self-worth and purpose. And it gives me a reason to live a better, Christlike life.

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Kira answered…
After my third son, I was struggling with depression for a long time. I could feel God's love for me but I wasn't happy. My sons were also developmentally delayed with communication disorders. It was very difficult to raise these boys. The Plan of Happiness helped me realize that having and raising children is one of the special blessings given to us by Heavenly Father. I wanted another child to give him the opportunity to live and learn about the plan. So after a very painful and difficult pregnancy I had my fourth son. Because of my fourth son, I found the courage to seek help for my depression. Now I am happy. I still struggle sometimes but the benefits that come from having a large family are amazing.

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Leigh Ann answered…
I am so thankful I had the gospel to share with my children and they are now sharing it with their children. It is wonderful to see this happening. It is the greatest gift I could have given them. I am living proof that anyone can change their life if they really want to do so & they will pray & ask for Heavenly Father's help. Nothing is impossible if it is the Lord's will and asked with faith.

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Kristil answered…
Well, first of all, “Plan of HAPPINESS”. Of course, it makes me happy! Knowing that I have a purpose, that I am a child of God (and so are YOU), and that I can live with all the people I love for eternity is the greatest blessing I have. This life, with all its trials and hardships, is temporary. Heavenly Father sent us here to see what we’d make of ourselves and so we can learn – we need to prove ourselves. He will never forsake us if we’re doing our best to live close to Him. Through the Atonement of Jesus Christ and God’s plan, we have the opportunity to live with God, our Father, and Christ, our Savior, for eternity. We can have EVERYONE we love, ALL our friends and family, FOREVER. How great is THAT?!

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Samantha Allen answered…
I am a mother of four beautiful children. I have one more baby that I lost due to a miscarriage. I was devastated. I knew that God loved me, and He knew that I wanted to be a mother. Miscarriages are heartbreaking, and I felt heartbroken for a while. Grieving is part of the process when a loved one, even one you have never met, is taken from you. I know that God has a plan of each of us. It is His Plan of Happiness. I know that I will get to hold my baby again. I know that it was part of His plan for me and for my family. We will all be together again. All of our losses will be made up and we will have joy with all of our family members forever.

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Bradley answered…
3 years ago, my grandma passed away. It was a hard time to see her pass away suddenly.She was a big part of my life. Knowing God has a plan for us allows me to have the confidence that I will see her again. That families are forever and not just for this life. It gives me the strenght to do the right thing; because I can see the bigger picture.

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Josh answered…
The Plan of Happiness, or the Plan of Salvation, answers three questions: Where did I come from? Why am I here? and Where am I going?
When I was 11, my mom was killed in a car accident. As soon as my Dad told us the news, he began teaching us about this plan. He told me that I would see my mother again, because we have special covenants with God in the temple; these bind us together as an eternal family. She will always be my mom. When I pass someday, she'll be there to welcome me home.
This is real. My perspective on life, and the trials or tragedies we encounter in it, is different. There is hope, and assurance. I know who I am, and where I am going. It all makes sense.

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Zack! answered…
Knowing God plan has blessed my family and me more then I can describe. Knowing that this life is not it, there is a life after death.
When I was 17 my grandpa died and my other grandpa died before I was born. If I didn't know that I would see them again and that they are in a better place, it would have been more difficult to overcome.
I know that this life is not it, we will all live again, and see our family members who have passed away. All of this is possible through the Atonement of Christ. We owe Him everything.

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Julianna answered…
We believe that families can be together forever. Even after death. I am so greatful that when we return to our Heavenly Father, that I will be able to be reunited with my family eternally.

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Madi! answered…
It gives me a purpose. If i did not have the knowledge that Heavenly Father has a plan for me, and that if I a righteous enough I can be with Him and my family for all of eternity, then i would be lost! It absolutely gives me comfort, especially when I think about family members that have passed on, because i know with a surety that I will be able to see them again.

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Angela answered…
This might be the most important concept that needed to be restored once again to us. We need to know who we are, where we're going, and why we're here. Without that sense of purpose, we find ourselves disproportionate, insignificant and lost. I grew up, fascinated with the thought that I lived, as a spirit, with everyone around me now. I was excited to be here on earth, to understand that it was going to be hard and it is hard! and that it was all going to be worth it, if I follow Jesus Christ. Even as a child, I was okay with the concept of death. I believed families could be together forever, because we had not only the knowledge but the priesthood, God's power on earth, to make that happen.
I believed all of this. In kind of a fairtyale, hopeful sort of way. It seemed simple and reflected the sentiment that God does love us.
I was serving an LDS mission in Texas when I found out my youngest sister had passed away. I had three months left before I was released to go home. It was quite unexpected and sudden. My world changed with one simple fact: Jennifer was gone.
It was at that point that I had to not only believe, I had to know. I got down on my knees and prayed for the faith and the most perfect knowledge I could be capable of the Plan of Happiness. The peace in knowing that I will not only see my sister again, but that she would understand and know that she would see us again as well. Jennifer grew up Mormon, but had stopped attending church for a few years at that point. It was her choice, and I still love her so much.
It's hard to understand why and how things have turned out. But I don't dwell on that. I dwell on the hope and that God loves me. He loves me and my sister just as much.
There is so much more to be said on this subject. However, for the most part, we are okay. Things aren't happy all the time, but we make it through thanks to the things we know. To the things I know.

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Brittany answered…
Knowing that there is more than this life gives me hope. It helps me get through the challenges I face and keeps me moving forward.
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